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Job Vs. Mission?

Wednesday, August 18th, 2010

Too often there’s a big gap between what you do for a living and what you do because it’s fun or feeds your soul. It’s not your fault really. When you think about it, the stage was set way back in elementary school, where you spent most of your time sitting in a classroom looking forward to recess. Class was work, and recess was fun.


But if you were lucky, you had a teacher who was fun and engaging. Someone who put your desks in a circle instead of boring rows or had you doing science experiments that involved flames and smoldering potions. You probably forgot all about recess with that teacher. Your “work” suddenly became a whole lot more interesting.

  • Do you spend your grown-up days watching the clock for the moment you can get outta Dodge and head for home and hobbies?
  • Do you enjoy your work on a superficial level — but it doesn’t speak to your deepest dreams and values?
  • Maybe you feel like you’re leading a double life — that who you have to be at work is a totally different person than the one you are at home?


Whatever the case, if you’re splitting your focus, you’re splitting your energy and diluting gratification. Is there a deep-seated sense of purpose drawing you toward certain “recess” activities? Another word for this is missiona calling to do things that speak to your core values and goals?


Maybe your mission pulls you to create art, work with charities, tutor neighborhood kids, or create beautiful landscaping in your own backyard. You’ll know when a task is tied to your mission because of the strong emotions it stirs, calling you to be and do something bigger with your life.


The good news is that you are living in a time when more and more people are recognizing the truth that, it really is possible to live your life mission. The question then becomes, how exactly do you meld your job and your mission?


Getting there requires a shift out of the old pattern that was ingrained during elementary school. Facilitating just this kind of shift is a fundamental aspect of the coaching process.


Save this date on your calendar now, September 15th, 2010. I’ll have more details for you soon, but I can tell you this now: I think you’ll be surprised at just how easily you can learn to bring that “recess” feeling to your work desk!



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Struggling with Self-Fulfillment?

Wednesday, June 23rd, 2010

When working with job seekers and business owners I often suggest they develop case studies. For job seekers it’s a good exercise to help them prepare their resume as well as for the interview. I recommend preparing 3 to 5 case studies using the following structure.


Step 1 — Describe the problem or situation in 5 sentences or less.
Give examples of how you saved money or time, made a process more efficient, or increased revenues.


Step 2 - Describe your process and/or how you solved the problem or issue. No more than 2 paragraphs.


Step 3 — State the result or outcome.


For business owners, use the same formula above. It’s a way to showcase the types of clients you’ve helped, can be used as a sell sheet, can enhance your website, or be used as an article. Click to see a sample here. Facts tell and stories sell!


In this week’s article I am taking my own advice and sharing with you one of my case studies. There are many misconceptions and preconceived notions of what it is really like working with a coach. Clients hire me for many different reasons; to make more money, career/job change, start their own business, and of course career life balance — however, their goals are always the same. They want results and I take pride in teaming up with them to get the results they’re after. My practice is about 50% male and 50% female, and I like it that way. I choose the clients I want to work with which is why I offer a complimentary consult. Here is one case in point.


Susan came to coaching because she was frustrated with her job and felt unfulfilled in her life. She had been working in the same company for five years, and saw no opportunities for future growth. The company politics drained her, and by the end of the day she had little energy left to share with her two young children.


Susan knew she wanted to make a change in her career. Feeling stuck, but driven to find a solution, she contacted Coach DQ — Dawn Quesnel, PCC (Professional Certified Coach) — who specializes in coaching sales, marketing and advertising professionals, and creative entrepreneurs whose techniques blend holistic life coaching and career coaching in a practice she calls Career Life Balance. In her first session with Coach DQ, Susan said, “I struggle with self-fulfillment, and worry that I’m not being a good mother and wife. I feel that I didn’t realize my earliest dreams, or didn’t try hard enough to realize them.”


Coach DQ replied: “Your career affects your life, and your life affects your career. Finding a balance isn’t always easy, and you can make the choice to make balance a priority. All you have to do is believe balance is possible. You absolutely can go after your dreams while being more present for your family. You only have one life, so why not make it a great one?”


When she started working with Coach DQ, Susan filled out a coaching questionnaire. Here are a few of the questions, and Susan’s answers.


1. What accomplishments or measurable events must occur in your lifetime in order for you to consider your life satisfying and well-lived? Have enough money to live comfortably with my family, have money for retirement, perhaps kids education.


2. Do you have a secret passion in your life, something which is almost too exciting to actually do, or do more of? Work in the movie/tv industry


3. What tips would you give your coach about how to manage you most effectively? Check up on me regularly, give me assignments


4. What’s missing in your life, the presence of which would make your life more fulfilling? Calmness, no stress, a sense of satisfaction in a job well done, knowing I am doing the best that I can, and being told that on a consistent basis.


5. Please describe your life purpose. How does it impact your day-to-day living? How do you know it’s the right path for you? I would say my life purpose right now is to make sure I am being a good mother first, wife second, and good to myself last. It impacts my day to day by having enough time and energy to give myself to my family in the way I feel it would benefit us as a whole and individually. It is the right one for me because having children is a big responsibility and it’s the most important part of my being at this time.


6. What do you want to make sure you get from the coaching relationship? Direction, options, new ideas and thoughts that I wouldn’t think of myself from lack of experience, support and dedication, loyalty.


7. What two steps could you take immediately that would make the greatest difference in your current work and life situation? Get a new job that pays better. Spend more time with my family.


Coach DQ suggested exercises to help Susan get clear on what her she wanted from her “dream job,” and how she wanted her life to be. Together, they developed specific goals and timelines, including a job search strategy plan to help Susan land her dream job. Then they looked at the obstacles — including her limiting beliefs — and developed structures to help her manage that inner saboteur who repeatedly told her, “You didn’t try hard enough.”


Working with her coach, Susan cultivated new habits and thought patterns, and learned how to use her time more effectively. Soon, she built up the courage to approach her current boss about working from home a few days a week, so she’d have more time to spend with her family.


After just six months of working with Coach DQ, Susan landed her ideal job in the film industry. She sold her house, and moved north to be closer to her family. She now has a shorter commute, makes more money, and has more time to spend with her children. By getting clear on what she wanted from her job and her life, and by using the focused techniques provided by Coach DQ, Susan was able to manifest her ideal situation and fulfill her personal and professional goals.


“The shoe that fits one person pinches another; there is no recipe for living that suits all cases.” — Carl Jung

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The Signs of Evolution

Monday, April 19th, 2010


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Five years ago I was a guest on a radio show. Walking out of the studio after my interview, I was absolutely elated. I’d fallen in love with broadcasting and decided then and there that I wanted to do my own show!


Five years later I’m still riding the wave. And I’m so grateful to all my loyal listeners and the people who have made my radio show possible. Special thanks to Joe D’Eramo for introducing me to John McCaul, who introduced me to Jeff Gamache, who introduced me to Tony Lopes, Roger and Dick Bouchard — and to all my special guests over the years!


But dreams like everything else evolve over time, and on April 7, 2010 I officially completed my last weekly broadcast of Career Life Balance (CLB) Radio — at least for now (but don’t worry, I’ll still be on air the 1st Wednesday of each month, beginning May 5th – so read on for more info). I’ve written many articles about planning for the future, setting goals and following through, and finding a balance which can propel you forward. The thing about forward motion though is that it brings change. And so not only do we need to plan and learn and act, “we need to evolve”.


Five years ago, starting my own radio show was just about the best thing I could have done. The process helped me to grow personally and professionally. But things have changed in my life since then and other exciting projects are in the works that demand my energy and attention. So I decided to embrace this evolution, which better supports my Career Life Balance.


Now, the fact that my direction is changing doesn’t mean that my goals are changing. My Coaching business is still my number one priority, and helping people is still my highest goal. It’s only my approach that’s evolving. I’m confident that this evolutionary process will bring even more benefits to my clients – and to me!


How do you know you need to evolve? Is it simply time?


There are many clues that will tell you it’s time to evolve. Maybe you’re feeling stagnate or stuck in a rut. Maybe your business has reached a plateau, but you want to climb even higher. Maybe you’re feeling apathetic toward a career that you once loved, without really knowing why. Or maybe you’re ready to grow wings and fly in a completely new direction.


If you’re not sure which path holds the most potential for growth, step back and try to look at the situation objectively. While my love for broadcasting has never faded, when I stepped back and looked at my business as a whole, I saw that in order for growth to happen, something needed to fall away – after all, there are only so many hours in the day. When an old tree falls down, more sunlight is able to come down to the forest floor, and new seeds are able to sprout. By allowing myself to let go of this one thing, I’m making room for new things to come.



Again, many sincere thanks to all my devoted listeners, friends, and clients who have helped to make CLB Radio a success! It’s my genuine hope that we can continue to evolve together. As my own evolution progresses, I’ll continue to provide helpful tips through these articles, and hopefully through other media venues as well.


In fact, although you won’t be hearing my voice every week anymore, I am happy to announce a new pilot series airing the first Wednesday of every month called “Brain Talk: Building the Bridge Between Your Business and Intuition”, with my series Co-Host, Tara Crawford Roth, CEC


On “Brain Talk” we’ll be showcasing business experts and discussing tools to support the development of the right and left sides of the brain. So be sure to tune in to BlogTalkRadio.com/Coach-DQ on Wednesday, May 5th @ 12n EST for Brain Talk.
 
“Some give up their designs when they have almost reached the goal; while others, on the contrary, obtain a victory by exerting, at the last moment, more vigorous efforts than before.” - Polybius


Until next time,
Hugs to you!


Coach DQ


Make it a Great one!


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CLB Radio Friday, Jun 12th 9:05am EST

Thursday, June 11th, 2009

Listen Live Friday morning at 9:05am EST to hear our special guest:  John DiPietro, author, marketer and professional speaker. He is in the midst of a distinguished career in media relations and is President of Advanced Business Concepts/ DiPietro or ABCD for short.
 
DiPietro is well versed in every phase of the media industry including radio, broadcast TV, Cable TV, newspapers and magazines.
 
He is the author of “You Don’t Have to be Perfect to be Great”, now in its second printing and soon to be updated, revised and expanded. The book entails his face-to-face work with notables from sports and entertainment including Kenny Rogers, Neil Diamond, John Denver, Frank Sinatra, the superstars of the WWF and even the clowns from the Greatest Show on Earth.
 
DiPietro is also a featured contributor to the latest Chicken Soup for the Soul series book called Inside Basketball. He is the host of the popular TV show The Success Journey, where he interviews people who have achieved success after encountering failure along the way!
 
DiPietro is the proud Dad of two daughters and has been married for 34 years to his wife Maribeth.

www.PerfectToGreat.com

Listen Live this Friday at 9:35 am EST ~ Intuitive Living with Tara Roth ~ As a lifelong intuitive and former senior executive specializing in personal development and training programs, Tara offers the unusual and powerful combination of hands-on business experience coupled with compelling intuition, well-honed communication abilities and improvisational performance skills.Tara is a poised, animated, and a motivating coach and intuitive and her passion is to instill more fun, creativity and insight in the lives of others. Listen as she teaches you how to tap into YOUR intuition and put it to work to manifest the results you want in your life. 

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2nd & last Friday of each month at
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